Finding the Words

"Avoiding theory and jargon, Dr. Hayley Watson's Finding the Words is a hands-on resource for teachers and other caring adults who hope to address young people's mental health issues proactively, responsively, and responsibly. From her deep experience as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Watson presents a practical framework for understanding common problems young people are facing—and then illustrates it with sample conversations that offer constructive strategies to support young people in overcoming these obstacles. Using highly accessible language, she encourages us to act on everyday opportunities to have a positive impact on young people who are experiencing mental health challenges."
—Sheldon Berman, Ed.D., Lead Superintendent for Social-Emotional Learning, AASA, The School Superintendents Association

"Finding the Words serves as a trusted colleague for educators, offering guidance and examples crucial for supporting students in their moments of struggle. This reliable companion empowers educators to authentically connect with students, equipping them with the words needed to navigate challenging situations and foster meaningful understanding."
—Liz Hill, M.Ed., Assistant Superintendent, West Vancouver Schools, Canada

"Dr. Watson's kind and open heart in the pages of this educator's guide make it possible to reach and connect with students and heal ourselves. Having strength, courage, and knowledge in all our approaches even when challenged by a student's behavior is our own healing. Always leading with the heart, Dr. Watson makes us stronger and wiser through practical and accessible guidance. In this guide, educators can find comfort in knowing that there are answers to hard questions as they navigate challenges with students as we learn and grow together."”
—Maura Papile, L.I.C.S.W., Senior Director of Student Support Services, Quincy Public Schools

"The book beautifully encapsulates the idea that as educators, our role goes far beyond imparting knowledge; we are also responsible for nurturing the emotional well-being of our students. Dr. Watson highlights the crucial steps in self-reflection that can help students confront their inner needs and find their true selves. By making space for this self-discovery, educators can profoundly impact a student's personal growth. Every educator or supporter of education can benefit from this book."
—Scott Frauenheim, President and Chief Executive Officer, Distinctive Schools

"Finding the Words is more than just a book – it's a call to action, empowering educators to engage in transformative conversations with young people facing significant challenges in their lives. Dr. Watson skillfully uses real life scenarios to demonstrate the application of a six-part process designed to boost mental health resilience among youth. At the heart of this approach is the value placed on deep, meaningful conversations between young people and supportive adults, providing the context for nurturing the insights and skills youths need to help them navigate adversity."
—Jenny Williams, Educational Consultant and Developer of http://wellbeingbc.ca

"Dr. Hayley has a deep, authentic passion to help students’ mental health journey and for educators to be equipped with the tools to help do and say the right thing in the moment. I believe this book will be the toolkit educators need to help students navigate some of their hardest years of mental health. Dr Hayley’s wisdom, intellect and genuine care for humans comes through in the words of this book. She breaks down the seemly overwhelming subject of mental health and gives educators the confidence and the language to meet students where they are at. It gives constructive and practical examples of real-life interviews with students for teachers to draw on to prepare for the tough conversations."
—Jules Sebastian, Founder of The Sebastian Foundation