You're Not a Failure

Praise for You’re Not a Failure

“You’re Not a Failure sweeps the cobwebs of weariness from parents’ souls and reminds them that they are enough, and not alone. Each page is overflowing with Whitney’s heart-centered wisdom which we have come to know and love. This is a must read for parents of tweens and teens.”

—Michelle Mitchell, parenting educator, tweens and teens specialist

“Thank God for Whitney Fleming and her practical advice on parenting teens. As someone raising three (almost four) of them right now, You’re Not a Failure is just what I needed.”

—Jess Johnston, national bestselling co-author of Here For It (The Good, The Bad, and the Queso)

“With raw honesty and well-earned insights, Fleming unpacks the rollercoaster ride of raising a teenager today. You’re Not A Failure is the roadmap every parent needs by their side. After reading this book from start to finish, you’ll want to keep it handy to re-read chapters whenever you hit little bumps or giant potholes in the road.”

—Jessica Speer, award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends), Middle School—Safety Goggles Advised, and The Phone Book

“Whitney Fleming normalizes one of the most difficult times in a parent's journey. She shines a light into all the ugly and dark corners, allowing us to rid ourselves of the shame and frustration while at the same time helping us navigate it with wisdom and kindness. I am so grateful for this book and all of Whitney's work.”

—Asia Mape, three-time Emmy award-winning journalist, the founder of Ilovetowatchyouplay, and the mother of three daughters

“In a world where we're constantly bombarded with confusing and guilt-producing messages on how to parent our teenagers the ‘right way,’ Whitney's book is a breath of fresh air. You’re Not A Failure is filled with honest stories and insightful wisdom that cuts through the noise and chaos, providing reassurance and clarity. With humor that lightens the load and practical steps at the end of each chapter, this book is a must-read for any mom feeling lost or overwhelmed. Whitney helps us focus on what truly matters the most—the relationship with our teens. This book is a beacon of hope and support that EVERY mom of a tween or teen needs to read.”

—Sheryl Gould, parenting educator, author, founder of Moms of Tweens and Teens, and host of The Moms of Tweens and Teens Podcast

“This book is a journey and an invitation through parenting the teenage years—through all the joys and missteps we’re bound to face along the way. Whitney Fleming becomes the friend you can count on, no matter what. She tells the brutal truth and offers helpful tools to both maintain our sanity and build relationship with our growing kids as they wander through these difficult and beautiful times.”

—Mikala Albertson, MD, author of Everything I Wish I Could Tell You About Midlife: A Woman’s Guide to Health in the Body You Actually Have

“This book is full of golden nuggets that will really help you be the parent your teen needs as they cross the bumpy road to adulthood. It’s raw, real, and full of practical things that will make a positive difference in your home.”

—Maggie Dent, parenting author, educator, and podcaster

"Whitney Fleming’s writing is so relatable, poignant and real.  Readers will find tremendous comfort and strength in this wise book. If you are raising teens, you will want to read this right away."

—Devorah Heitner, author of Growing Up in Public and Screenwise